Sometimes

Sometimes you need to take things as they come. And that is what I am working on doing.

I really like Andrew, but I have no desire to invest myself completely into something only to have it thrown back in my face. So I am taking things as they come. What happens happens. If there is meant to be more, there will be more. I am just going to be open to it and enjoy what I do have.

I think that Andrew is trying to be careful with his heart. He has been married before, and it ended not so well. I believe that he is just trying to avoid ending in a similar situation by taking things slowly and not investing too much of himself before he is ready.

I am doing something similar to that. I don't know if that is what he is doing, but it feels like it may be. I don't know for sure. I don't know because I haven't figured him out yet. I am usually a fairly capable reader of people. I can figure them out most of the time, but I haven't managed to figure him out just yet.


Haven't heard from him since Sunday evening. I think he just has a lot of family stuff going on, and that is understandable. I kind of miss talking to him a bit. It is very comfortable for me, talking to him and being around him. Comfort means a lot to me in relationships. If you aren't comfortable, you will not be happy in that relationship.