Saturday, October 20, 2007

Resulting

All of this mess...My blog has been getting several more hits.

I do not know who is looking. I know some of the hits are valid while others are not.

Introduce yourselves. You may as well. I know one of you is a friend of Joel's. He told me that you said something about reading my blog.

I don't bite. All the time.

3 comments:

Jen said...

Valid hit here. ;)

Normally I eschew giving unsolicited advice, particularly of the "read this! it'll change your life!" stripe, because real change takes more than a single sit-down with a single book. But I do hate to see you wriggling on a pin on which I've wriggled too many times in my life, and so I will encourage you, heartily, to find a copy of Sex Tips for Girls by Cynthia Heimel. (It's still in print; most bookstores carry it in their humor sections.) It was written in 1983, and thus is filled with period 80's cultural references, but it's such a pip that you can't help but be cheered by it -- and a lot of the advice buried within the silly jokes is still good. The very last chapter is called "How to Cure a Broken Heart," and I swear, just reading it always made me feel glad to be alive (and made me hunger for a nice long road trip). Try it. Like I said, it won't fix everything, but it will give you at least a few moments of mirth and hilarity and comfort -- and the more of those you have, the tougher, and better, you'll feel.

Hang in there, Christie. Easier said than done, I know, but try anyway. It will pass, you know.

Tina said...

I'm the friend, I think.

I too can relate (painfully so) to the agony of loving someone who can't give you what you need in return. It's terrible, and it hurts so much. I hope that, one way or another, this will work out in the way that's best for both of you.

Missy Mao said...

Jen- Well of course you are a valid hit, dear. I notice when you pop in. Even if you don't post or say anything. ^.^ Hugs.

I will look into that book, thank you. I don't know when I will get the chance (or the money), but I will look into it. ^.^


Tina- If you are the one that gave him your number and told him to call him, you are. Maybe you are the one that has been texting him today, but I don't know. He didn't tell me.

Thank you. You are sweet. I am sorry that you ahve had to deal with this kind of thing. I don't think that anyone should have to deal with this. Things will work out in the end for what one can only hope is the best for each of us.